1 Egskeiding En Hertroue
1.1 01. Wat Dink YHWH Van Liefde
Ex 20:6 And showing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments. .
De 5:10 And showing mercy unto thousands of them that love me and keep my commandments. .
De 6:5 And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. .
De 7:9 Know therefore that the LORD thy God, he is God, the faithful God, which keepeth covenant and mercy with them that love him and keep his commandments to a thousand generations; .
1.2 02. YESHUA Herhaal Die Betekenis Van Liefde Vele Kere.
Mt 5:44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; .
Mt 5:46 For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? .
Mt 19:19 Honor thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. .
Mt 22:37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. .
Mt 22:39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. .
Mr 12:31 And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these. .
Mr 12:33 And to love him with all the heart and with all the understanding, and with all the soul, and with all the strength, and to love his neighbor as himself, is more than all whole burnt offerings and sacrifices. .
Joh 12:25 He that loveth his life shall lose it; and he that hateth his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal. .
Joh 13:34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. .
Joh 13:35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another., .
Joh 14:15 If ye love me, keep my commandments. .
Joh 14:21 He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him. .
Joh 14:23 Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him. .
Joh 14:24 He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and the word which ye hear is not mine, but the Father's which sent me. .
Die versies is maar net 'n geselekteerde groepie. Daar is honderde verwysings wat soortgelyk is. Kon YHWH dit duideliker gemaak het?
Enige emosie? Nope. LIEFDE is ‘n lewensbeginsel wat min te doen het met emosie, of gevoel… DIT IS EENVOUDIG ‘n OPDRAG. En om Hom lief te hê is om Sy OPDRAGTE uit te voer.
1.3 03. Die Bybelskrywers Herhaal Die Betekenis Van Liefde - Dit Is 'n Lewensbeginsel En 'n Opdrag
Ro 13:10 Love worketh no ill to his neighbor: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law. .
1Co 8:3 But if any man love God, the same is known of him. .
Eph 3:17 That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, .
Eph 3:19 And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fullness of God. .
Eph 4:2 With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; .
Eph 4:15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ: .
Eph 4:16 From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every, part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love. .
Eph 5:2 And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savor. .
1.4 04. Huweliksmaats Spesifiek
Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the ekklesia, and gave himself for it; .
Eph 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. .
Eph 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular, so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. .
Col 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter, against them. .
Tit 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, .
Neem Kennis: Geen verskoning vir gelowiges nie. Geen afstomp, of liefde verloor nie. Dit is 'n Godgegewe opdrag. Vir beide,
Kom die opdragte van YHWH en YESHUA na en verwag Sy seen.
Verontagsaam dit en moenie Sy seen verwag nie. In die gebroke, Satans beheerde wereld kan mens net moeilikheid verwag.
Albei huweliksmaats is skuldig om nie mekaar lief te he nie - maar daar rus 'n groot onus op die man om sy vrou lief te he, te beskerm en te koester. Hy staan op baie onstabiele grond wanneer hy die opdragte ignoreer.
'n Vrou wat nie getrou aan haar man bly nie het nie 'n goeie naam in YHWH se oe nie.
En vir beide - kyke en gedagtes van begeerte na 'n ander wat nie 'n huweliksmaat is nie? Egbreek in die hart. Dieselfde gevolge - uiteindelik as fisiese egbreek...
1.5 05. Wat Is 'n "huwelik" In Die Bybel?
Job 10:10 Hast thou not poured me out as milk, and curdled me like cheese? .
Mt 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. .
Dit is ‘n ooreenkoms wat tussen twee gesluit is, met ’n komplekse en bloedige ritueel. Dit was geldig tot die dood en die middeldeur gesnyde dier waardeur die twee geloop het was simbool van wat ander sou doen met een wat verbond verbreek het. Hulle moes mekaar beskerm tot die dood.
Die huwelik is so verbond - in YHWH se oë. Dit is soortgelyk aan die Sinai vebond (met bloed) en die nuwe verbond (YESHUA se bloed).
In Spreuke noem YHWH 'n huwelik SY verbond!
Verbondskontrak? Die hedendaagse huwelikskontrak het absoluut niks met die Bybelse model te doen nie. Die huwelik is gesluit wanneer die man sy bruid die eerste keer penetreer en daar bloed vloei. Die laken waarop die vrou se bloed was die verbondskontrak, en die geeste van die twee het een geword soos hulle liggame.
Selfs gestorte semen was beskou as "lewe" wat YHWH gee!
1.6 06. Hoe Beskryf Skrif "liefde" Wanneer Emosie Alleen Betrokke Is?
2Sa 13:1 And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her..
2Sa 13:2 And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her..
2Sa 13:11 And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister. .
2Sa 13:12 And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly. .
2Sa 13:13 And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee..
2Sa 13:14 Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her..
2Sa 13:15 Then Amnon hated her exceedingly;, so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love, wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone. .
2Sa 13:16 And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other, that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her..
2Sa 13:17 Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her..
2Sa 13:18 And she had a garment of divers colors upon her: for with such robes were the king's daughters that were virgins appareled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her..
2Sa 13:19 And Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers colors that was on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on, crying. .
2Sa 13:20 And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he is thy brother; regard, not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house. .
2Sa 13:28 Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnon's heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him, fear not: have not I commanded you? be courageous, and be valiant., .
2Sa 13:29 And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king's sons arose, and every man got him up upon his mule, and fled. .
Tipies sou ons so iets noem ‘n versotheid (verdwaasing, verliefdheid, infatuation) en wellus (belusting, begeerte) is emosies wat in omtrent alle gevalle in die Bybel negatief bejeen word. In uitsonderlike gevalle word dit toegelaat - VIR DIE REGTE REDES. In alle ander gevalle word dit veroordeel en verdoem - soos o.a. in die geval van buite huwelikse seks.
Waar die "lus" oorgeneem het, het net bloed en trane gevolg. Dink aan Amnon en Tamar (sy kon nooit trou, Amnon is vermoor), David en Batseba (dit het David soos 'n gees gevolg, en word terkemale aangehaalm en sy vroue is verkrag in almal se gesig), Dinah en Shechem (die stad is uitgemoor).
1.7 07. Verbreking Van Die Huwelik
De 22:20 But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel: .
De 22:21 Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father's house: so shalt thou put evil away, from among, you..
De 22:22 If a man be found lying with a woman married to a husband, then they shall both, of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel., .
1.8 08. Het YHWH Egskeiding Toegelaat?
De 24:1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house., .
In die OT - ja. MAAR daar was net EEN rede - as die man uitgevind het dat die vrou seks gehad het met ‘n ander man - voor hulle juwelik.
1.9 09. Wat Dink YHWH Van Egskeiding?
Pr 2:16 To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger, which flattereth with her words; .
Mal 2:13 And this have ye done again, covering the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping, and with crying out, insomuch that he regardeth, not, the offering any more, or receiveth it with good will at your hand., .
Mal 2:14 Yet ye say, Wherefore?, Because, the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant. .
Mal 2:15 And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. .
Mal 2:16 For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously., .
Moenie YHWH se glimlag verwag as die verbond verbreek word nie.
Hy HAAT dit. Dit is geweld in Sy oë. Dit is verbondsverbreking - welliswaar tussen twee mense maar so verbond is vir Hom net so gewyd en belangrik as ‘n verbond met Hom. Hy neem dit nie ligtelik op nie en laat dit ook nie net daar nie - die verbond wat hy/sy gesluit het was met Hom.
Let op in Maleagi - huwelik se onaantasbaarheid het ABSOLUUT NIKS te doen met “ek is lief of nie, opgewonde, afgestomp, hard”. Dit is ‘n geetelike samesmelting in die hemel gedoen en hier moet ons oor ons GEES waak - dit met ons lewe beskerm. Oneindig dieper as ‘n skielike opwelling van kalwerliefde en/of wellus.
1.10 10. Wat Dink YESHUA Van Hertroue Van Geskeide Dit Is Egbreek
Mt 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever, shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever, shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. .
Mt 19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts, suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. .
Mt 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever, shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. .
Mr 10:12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery. .
Lu 16:18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery. .
Dit is egbreek - dieselfde as ‘n getroude persoon met iemand anders gemeenskap (seks) het.
Daar is heeltemal genoeg aanduidings in die Bybel oor wat YHWH dink van egbreek - en mens wil nie Sy oordeel oor jou lewe kry nie - eerder Sy seen.
Pastore/dominees gebruik ‘n ietwat onduidelike vers in 1Kor 7 om hertoue te motiveer, maar hulle doen dit omdat hulle vere voel vir wat YESHUA te sê gehad het.
Dit is 'n komplekse en lang verduideliking wat ek nie hier kan gee nie, maar in kort het dit te doen met die lukrake manier waarop godsdiensleiers met die Skrif omgaan - en YESHUA, Sy posisie, gesag, en inspraak uit hulle teologie weer.
1.11 07. Hoe Beskou YHWH Seks Buite Huwelik Baie Ernstig?
Baie ernstig. Buite huwelikse seks is in amper alle gevalle met die dood gestraf, met twee uitsonderings. En in die een MOES die twee trou. 'n Getroude vrou en 'n ander man - is doodgegooi. 'n Ongetroude meisie in die stad - altwee doodgegooi omdat sy nie geskree het nie. Sy het net weggekom as sy in die veld was waar niemand haar kon hoor nie.
As 'n man jaloers was op 'n vrou moes sy bitter water drink - as sy skuldig was het sy weggeteer.
Nu 5:18-31
1.12 11. En Wat Dink Die Wetenskap Van Statistiek Van Hertroue?
80% van hertroues eindig weer in egskeiding. Sal jy uit ‘n vliegtuig spring met ‘n valskerm wat net 20% van jou spoed breek? Jy tref nog steeds die grond teen 180km/h. Nope.
Of as mens van 'n krans spring en net 1 uit 5 keer HOU die tou! Dit moet regtig 'n desperate of totaal verdwaasde persoon wees wat so kans sal vat,
Hou wat jy het,