Jew vs Christian
Bethel = house of God. I am the God of the house of God.
El is the singular of Elohim, so the One appeared to Him was one of the Elohim, that El is the same as God.
The verb appeared is plural. when they revealed Himself to Jacob.
Also important, the Angel demands obedience - why would He not in the New Testament? - and He can forgive sin or not. What the Pharisees said, only YHWH could forgive sin.
Only used of YHWH. So the Servant should be equal to YHWH.
YHWH, Angel of His face, Holy Spirit = 3 equ 3 in 1
The Spirit guided them.