In Gen 3, 6 and 10 man has so distorted and warped the relation between him and YHWH, an impenitrable wall between him and his God - and his fellow man, resulting in animosity and distance, conflict and pain and blood.YESHUA came to restore our relationship with YHWH and our fellow man - an outstanding example of that is this interaction.
How are we restored?
Follow the clues. Allow YESHUA to speak. Have open ears. Know that one has a need, a shame, a boil hidden behind makeup. Problem, this is many times visible for all to see - as it was with this woman. Be honest. Be humble.
Allow YESHUA to remove the makeup to expose that horrible infection - pride, lust, rebellion, deception - whatever resists being exposed and prevents one to be in the presence of the living God.
Allow YESHUA to walk one through the steps of Mat 5, being poor - acknowledging one's needs, mourning - about one's condition, meek - submissive to the Physician to make His cuts and applies His medicine and restoration, to remove and clean the puss of one's own sin, hunger and thirst - intense desire to be right with YHWH, provisons vital to (spiritual) life, mercy - as YESHUA was to us, pure - having allowed YHWH's furnaces to loosen, rising to the surface and removal of deep and strongly attached impurities buried in our soul, being a peacemaker - between YHWH and man, and man and man.
Lastly, to undergo the litmus test of the above - being able to handle persecution, for YESHUA's sake.